How do I become more quick-witted? Off to the practice course!

There it is, the perfect answer to your colleague's nasty remark, the witty counter to your girlfriend's jibe. Only: unfortunately far too late. We're all familiar with the phenomenon: the other person makes a remark that we don't want to let stand. But instead of reacting quickly, we stammer around or say nothing at all - and get all the more annoyed when we think of a witty retort hours later. Hardly anyone finds it easy to find the right words at the right moment. And that, of course, chips away at our self-confidence. So how can I become more quick-witted? Unfortunately, there is no one-size-fits-all solution. But there are training steps that can help you to avoid being caught off guard by surprise situations. Learning how to go on the offensive better requires a bit of effort, but the reward is a strong, confident appearance in front of others. So: clear the ring for more quick-wittedness!

Body language

Show your counterpart that you can attack. Stand up and consciously stand up straight: you will already appear a few centimetres taller and much more competent. Now turn to face the other person completely: not just with your head, but also with your shoulders. Also look them directly in the eye and maintain eye contact. Want to bet that you will immediately feel much more confident?

Ask specific questions

"What did you just say? What makes you think that? Why are you accusing me of that? How do you justify this accusation?" Put your counterpart to the test by asking for an explanation or proof of their assertion. This not only buys you time (in which you can think of a suitable "counter-sentence"), but also unsettles the other person and takes the wind out of their sails at the same time.

Talking is golden

But what exactly should I say now? Write down your favorite sayings and quotes for different situations. Self-irony also usually helps with mishaps and embarrassing moments: if you have the laughs on your side, the actual misstep is quickly forgotten. And if you really can't think of anything to say, talk about it - you're guaranteed to score sympathy points.

Ask a good friend for help

Let a trusted person insult you in a really nasty way. And then counter: first objectively, then with humor and finally in a not-so-subtle way. Test which tactics you use to respond to different attacks in the most clever and quick-witted way. Your confidant will certainly give you honest feedback so that you are well prepared for the real "emergency".

Learn quick-wittedness from the pros

As a "cool down", here's a tip for anyone who likes to watch TV: Tune in to talk shows and discussion panels more often. The guests have to be quick-witted, especially in political talks. Which participants convince you the most? And why? Is it more down to their gestures or what they say and how they say it? Join in the argument and internalize the best sayings and body language of your favourites. Have you paid attention and practiced? Then you're definitely ready for the next round.