Life without you? Unthinkable. With you, everything suddenly makes sense, all doubts disappear. Thanks to you, an I becomes a we. We need you to be fulfilled and satisfied. But, quite honestly, you can also confuse us, dear love. Because you are not easy to understand - and certainly not easy to grasp. Sometimes you seem to play with us. Yes, most of the time you remain a mystery to us. Help us to understand you!

1 Why is it often difficult to find you?
Because the very idea of having to look for me is wrong. I am always there. In your hearts. If you open yourselves to this fact, you will suddenly discover me everywhere. In nature, in the golden autumn leaves, in the clouds in the wind... But above all in other people.

2 How important is sex for you?
When it comes to a love affair between two people who want to form an intimate bond with each other - very important. Tenderness, passion and desire that fulfill both partners equally are simply part of me. If this creates even more intimacy and closeness between two lovers - how wonderful!

3 When will we know you're there?
You will feel it. That tingling in your stomach, that palpitating heart. That deep connection that sweeps away all fears and doubts. That no questions remain. I am the answer.

4 How can you be described?
I am infinite. And infinitely happy. Because when I give myself to others, I get a lot in return. A warm smile, a hug, a cheerful heart.

5 Do you choose who we want all by yourself?
Of course, that's what I'm here for. Those who try to go against me are often afraid of their own feelings. But I won't be swayed. Online profiles from dating agencies or apps can help you get to know someone who seems to suit you and who has similar interests. However, no formula can be used to measure in advance whether this will turn into love. True love means taking risks and requires courage. But it also rewards all efforts. Get involved with me!

6 What can you not stand?
When I am not treated with care and respect. I don't like lying, cheating and harassment. What hurts me most is when people do something wrong in my name.

7 Do people actually need proof for you?
Like flowers for Valentine's Day? Rings on your finger? No, I exist like that too. Symbols are a nice thing, they strengthen relationships, I'm happy about them. But what I really need is trust.

8 Why does it hurt when you leave us?
I won't leave you, never. It is a partner, a loved one, who leaves you. Perhaps out of fear of not being the right person. I don't always know the circumstances. But I do know that if you allow it, I can comfort you. Realize that you always have the right to love and happiness. You are loved and you can love - at any time. Even in dark moments, when it seems completely absurd. I will support you as best I can.

9 Can you be held forever?
Yes, but only if holding on doesn't mean holding on and doesn't mean standing still. I must be able to grow and change, I must be allowed to be free. If that's possible, I have no reason to leave. I'm actually very attached.

10 When are you particularly strong?
When I am united with the love of others. Because sometimes I also feel alone, I wish I had someone by my side and could let myself go. That's why I work so actively to connect with others and create new relationships. There's no better way to live and love than together.

11 What do you want for the future?
More from me. For everyone. Especially for those who turn away from me and believe they don't deserve me. Who are lonely because of it and doubt themselves. Everyone is lovable. I believe that if everyone understood that, there would be less conflict and more appreciation for each other. I also wish I had more fun experimenting with myself. I am so big, so wide and diverse - share me, spread me, enjoy me! Everyone can contribute to taking me out into the world. And make it a little bit better in the process.

12 How do you react to routine?
It gives me security and forms a solid foundation. But building on that, I need attention: I don't just want to be taken for granted. I also need variety and a breath of fresh air from time to time. Because that's the only way I can continue to grow.