1 What were you particularly happy about today?
Of course we want the answer here:
"About the fact that I have a date with you." But even if he talks about how beautiful he thought the sunrise was or that the bus driver greeted him so nicely, it shows that he is an attentive person who consciously lives in the here and now - and is grateful for little things.

2 What are you particularly proud of?
Here we find out what is really important to him in life, what his heart beats for: Is it the career steps he has achieved that make him proud? That he supported a friend in an emergency situation? Or that he fought on after a personal setback?

3 What did you want to be as a child?
This is followed by the question: Do you think your current job is better, or are you still chasing your dreams? In this way, we can find out a lot about his goals, whether he is very ambitious and whether his current job makes him happy.

4 What do you like to spend money on?
No, we don't expect him to answer "For you!" here. Rather, we want to find out what he enjoys without a guilty conscience, what (purchasable) things give him pleasure. Perhaps he has an exciting hobby or loves going out to eat. In the future, he would like to do the latter with us ...

5 What have you been thinking about recently?
What has been on his mind? What topics make him ponder, perhaps even rethink and question his own views? Whether these are everyday problems, a good book that he has just read or a recent news item: this is guaranteed to lead to a very exciting, in-depth discussion.

6 What else would you like to learn?
Is he curious, bright and enthusiastic about the unknown? We'll find out with this question. It's nice to know that you have a partner at your side who wants to break out of the daily routine and broaden their horizons. Inspiring!

7 Do you also listen to your body?
It's not that we want a fitness professional who lives by a strict diet every day. It's about being aware of how you treat yourself: Does he pay attention to his needs and does something good for himself every now and then? Do they take responsibility for their health?

8 What has been your best trip so far?
What kind of vacation suits him? Where does he recharge his batteries? What landscapes fascinate him and what else would he like to see of the world? If your interests match, it's best to make plans together.