• What is a handjob?
• The handjob as an exciting love game
• Leading a handjob to a climax

What is a handjob?

The term comes from the English language and means something like hand job. The aim of a handjob is to sexually stimulate your partner with your hand and possibly bring them to orgasm. During this process, the hand is moved rhythmically around the penis, creating a pleasant stimulation. Your hand can be closed in a ring or you can just use individual fingers. As with all sexual practices, the exact procedure cannot be generalized, as human needs and sensations are very individual. The way in which a handjob is performed depends on the partner's preferences, the skill of the person performing it and their current desires and feelings. Factors such as heat, pressure, speed, rhythm and the number of fingers determine how pleasurable a man feels during a handjob. It is also crucial which areas of the penis are stimulated and whether it is circumcised. However, it makes a big difference in a handjob whether it is performed dry, i.e. without lubricant, or wet. For many men, wet stimulation is much more intense, as it stimulates the sensitive glans and not just the shaft of the penis.

Absolute no-gos are hard squeezing, very fast movements or bending the penis. Due to the risk of injury and the associated pain, you should avoid such slips!

The handjob as exciting lovemaking

A handjob can be used as foreplay, as a short interlude or can lead up to the climax. However, care must be taken with this form of lovemaking so as not to end it prematurely. The most important thing with a handjob is stamina. For this reason, it is best to adopt a comfortable position at the beginning, for example by kneeling or lying next to your partner. In general, never grip too tightly during a handjob. Many men's testicles and glans are very sensitive and can respond with pain if too much pressure or a tug is applied. It is better to feel your way slowly with gentle, stroking hand movements. Your partner will respond quickly and symbolize that you can continue. If your loved one is still wearing their trousers, you should always be careful with the zipper. This can cause nasty injuries. Now it is important, especially for circumcised men, to ensure sufficient moisture in the form of lubricants. Too much friction often leads to pain, which can end the lovemaking prematurely. Remember that you have two hands and that you can use them. Stimulate your partner's penis with both hands or use one hand to stroke his thigh or upper body. This will give your lovemaking even more excitement and that certain tingling sensation.

Lead a handjob to a climax

If you not only want to offer your lover exciting foreplay, but also bring him to climax, there are a few things to bear in mind. If you are working towards his climax, you should vary the speed and pressure of your grip. It's also nice to change hands every now and then. This will give your partner a new sensation and your other hand can rest briefly in between.

A small tip with a big effect: simply look your partner in the eye to see what they like. You can also ask him openly what he wants. Rubbing with the flat of your hand over the sensitive tip of the penis is particularly intense. In combination with a massage of the penis shaft, this can be an exhilarating experience for the man. A classic technique is to stimulate the penis with screwing movements, similar to opening a bottle. The right rhythm is important to bring him to orgasm. As soon as ejaculation occurs, you should not simply stop, but continue slowly and with low intensity to let the movements fade away. The same rule applies to handjobs as to all sexual games: Only do it when you feel like it. Nothing is worse for men than a listless lover who gives an emotionless handjob. But if you spoil your partner with passion, he is guaranteed to return the favor!