Honey, you're embarrassing me

Apart from his penchant for white socks or his jokes, which take some getting used to, our darling is a real sweetheart. It's just that sometimes he behaves, if you'll pardon the pun, out of all proportion and we wish we were far away. We'll tell you what strategies can help in such cases.

He has a very special sense of humor

The problem: At every party, there comes a point when your husband makes a fool of himself. He obviously enjoys it when everyone laughs at him. Only you feel like crying more and more often.

One solution: Why do you want to spoil his fun? When did you stop finding him funny? Humor holds every relationship together and if it's missing, then the relationship is already in crisis. Find out the real reason for your annoyance.

He's a notorious know-it-all

The problem: He is intelligent, articulate and has the knowledge of the world. Unfortunately, he runs his mouth with his expertise, making him seem arrogant and overbearing.

One solution: If he really thinks that his know-it-all attitude is entertaining, it's time to make him realize that he's more of a mood killer. And that he's making himself unpopular. That should give him pause for thought.

He has absolutely no taste in fashion

The problem: To cut a long story short: Your partner is a fashion debacle. Wears camouflage Bermuda shortswith a checked shirt and white socks with trekking sandals. You get too much when he shows himself in public like this.

One solution: he clearly doesn't give a damn about fashion. You should step in, clear out his closet and go shopping with him. Lure him in with the sentence: "You look stunningly sexy like this!"

He likes to show off and make himself important

The problem: He plays the big shot everywhere. In the restaurant, he treats the staff like slaves. If he has to wait at the supermarket checkout, he grumbles at the cashier. It doesn't bother him that he uses abusive language or even becomes insulting.

One solution: ask him directly why he is doing this. And tell him that he will lose your respect if he doesn't treat others with respect and tolerance. On the other hand: Your husband is an adult and is responsible for his own behavior. It's not your fault and you don't need to be ashamed of him.

He can't keep quiet - no matter what he does

The problem is that some people are barely audible. Your pet is not one of them. He makes a racket no matter what he does. Talking, laughing, coughing, sneezing - he easily rivals the noise pollution caused by a jackhammer. You can hardly believe how a human being can make such a noise.

Unfortunately, there is nosolution, because this peculiarity cannot be turned off at will. So you have to learn to ignore his noise or find someone quieter.

He talks about everything, even the most intimate things

The problem: you may give kisses to good friends, but you don't feed them intimate details of your married life. But that's exactly what he does. For example, he tells you in a cheerful conversation that you snore at night and drool on your pillow.

One solution: launch a counter-attack immediately. Tell the others that his mother still calls him "big, mighty rabbit fart". If he has to be ashamed of himself, he will be more reticent about your secrets in future.

He becomes a wild animal when looking for a parking space

The problem: Your partner is polite, considerate, lovable ... as long as you don't snatch the parking space from under his nose. Then your nice guy gets out of the car and acts like Rambo on sugar shock.

One solution: don't get involved. As long as it's just the search for a parking space, you can deal with it. He won't change, but there are worse things.