If the act of love always ends after a short time, this can be very frustrating for the woman AND the man. What's more, if HE is permanently unable (to continue), the relationship is put to the test. If there are no health reasons, a certain lovemaking technique can prevent premature orgasm.

The stop-and-go technique against premature cumming

By now you're probably curious as to how this technique might work... In any case, it's up to the woman, because she spoils her lover with her hand or mouth. Until he can hardly stop himself. He gives her a signal shortly before coming so that the pampering program is interrupted. Then start again from the beginning.

Important: Take your time and enjoy it together in a relaxed atmosphere. It may take several minutes for him to really get going at the beginning. After the interruption, continue with this technique every minute: so, make him hot (approx. 1 minute until he's about to come again), interrupt, make him hot, etc. - at the end he's welcome to come.

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What are the benefits of the stop-and-go technique?

By interrupting, the man learns to control his "coming" better. He is pushed to his limits again and again, but always has to take himself back. That's how it would be during a real sexual act. You think he can practise this on his own? Sure, but the likelihood of the man coming too soon during shared lovemaking is definitely higher than if he is alone. After all, there is often excitement involved, which goes hand in hand with fear of failure. And it's simply more fun as a couple. Afterwards, he can give you plenty of oral pleasure!

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