Lick properly: He shouldn't make these 3 mistakes during oral sex

Women love oral sex, or cunnilingus, because we can be brought to climax particularly gently with the tongue. But a lot can go wrong during oral sex. He should avoid these 3 mistakes when licking!

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Man and woman having oral sex: Now the woman wants to be spoiled!

What the blowjob is for men, cunnilingus is for us women - both sexes love to be satisfied orally with their mouth and tongue. We know that you can do a lot wrong with a blowjob - but when it comes to licking? You bet - and we'll tell you what can go wrong! So that your next oral sex will be an even bigger firework of sensations for you.

1. just lick away

Well, you're not a popsicle stick and he's not a dog - great if he wants to spoil us so single-mindedly, but that's not how it works. A little finesse is allowed when licking. However, teeth are taboo, even if he is only too happy to nibble on us. Please only use your mouth and lips. Psst: We also enjoy a little finger play!

2. he only concentrates on the clitoris

We don't want to be too strict, because at least he's found the most important spot. But: We women have a lot more to offer that needs to be pampered. The entire vulva, i.e. in addition to the clitoris, the labia and the vaginal vestibule are also highly erogenous zones during oral sex. Therefore: go ahead!

3. he just stops!

Oh no, that's not how it works - just as he wants to be pampered until the grand finale of a blowjob, so do we. So stopping is not an option. Our body language and lustful sounds speak for themselves. And when we say: "Honey, don't stop!" then our wish must be his command.

By the way: If you don't have a man at hand, you can also pamper yourself wonderfully - for example with this vibrator for clitoral stimulation .

Date: 30.09.2020
Author: Tanja Seiffert