Honestly, what do you and your loved one do when you have a few hours of free time left over? Watch a round of Netflix? Cuddle up or sleep a little? It's a shame really - because we all like to remember how exciting the moments together were in the first few months of the relationship. How nice it would be to be physically very, very close to each other again, maybe even venture into new, erotic territory together. The good news: with a few tricks, you can quickly rekindle the magic. Give it a try!
Slow sex for more feeling
Slow means slow - but it doesn't mean sex in slow motion. It's about being in the here and now and being fully present with your partner's thoughts and body. This mindfulness not only gives you lots of the cuddle hormone oxytocin - but also intense orgasms. Wonderful!
Concert of desires
Admittedly, it takes a bit of courage to talk about sex dreams and erotic desires - but it's worth it. How else will your lover know what gives you real fulfillment? Be gentle and say something like "Wouldn't you like to try xy?" That takes the pressure off.
The foreplay
When you're newly in love, you're constantly in contact. You write messages and talk on the phone. And as soon as you see each other, you fall for each other. During the day, send lots of little hints about the evening ahead or a previous hot night. It's called sexting.
Movie off
Do you find porn movies disgusting? Why not look for a softer version that excites you? Because one thing is clear: when you watch together, sex is in the air. And maybe you'll come up with new ideas ...
Take a deep breath
We know this from yoga: the right breathing makes many things easier. The same applies to sex. Deep, even breaths allow you to feel your body better. Tip: Hold your breath just before orgasm - this intensifies everything.
Everything clean?
Sure, we all want to smell seductive - but that would mean getting dressed up for love. On the other hand, spontaneous sex is particularly hot. Just do it - without planning. And: men like natural scents.
Flex your muscles
You can train your pelvic floor - always. Tighten, relax, tense ... Love balls or vibrating eggs (left) also strengthen the muscles. If you can let them play, you can give yourself and your partner extra fun.
Toy trends
Alone or as a couple - these toys are a lot of fun
- Vibrating egg This toy can be controlled by remote control. Exciting for him - and her. 20.99 euros. Bullet, via www.amazon.de
- Womanizer is often bought by men as a gift. Small, cute and gently pulsating. 69 euros. Womanizer Starlet, via orion.de
- Double vibrator The smaller part is flexible for extra stimulation. Hot piece! 39.95 euros, Best Mate, via www.orion.de
- Dildo vibrator It vibrates and rotates 360 degrees. Waterproof, so it's also great for the bath. 29.69 euros. Paloqueth, via amazon.de
Handmade
Bring each other to orgasm using only your hands. For one month. Do without everything else. You'll get to know each other's bodies (again) more intensively. And maybe this will even become your new favorite love game ...
Wow underwear
Sure: a lace bra and briefs don't make for good sex - but they say more than a thousand words, namely: I'm in the mood. Only wear underwear that you like yourself. The nice side effect: you feel extra seductive.
Role play
Advanced idea: Why don't you make a date in a bar and pretend you don't know each other? And because you are not yourself in this scenario, you can make up stories and flirt without restraint. It's a bit like the beginning - and yet completely different. You probably won't make it to bed at home.
Jour fixe
Put an appointment in your loved one's calendar. Let's say: Sundays from 2 to 3 pm is your time. Meeting point: bedroom. Of course, you can catch up on missed sleep, but there's more. Fixed dates also increase anticipation.
Change of scene
The bed is so comfortable, the washing machine not so much. Nevertheless, you should not only change position from time to time, but also change location. At best it gets really hot, at worst you at least have something to laugh about.
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