Resolutions of a different kind
How about some resolutions for your sex life? Nobody wants to have less sex. The math is therefore simple: sex is fun, more sex is even more fun and annual resolutions and lots of fun go well together, don't they? So here are a few sexual resolutions that you are welcome to make this year.
1. more sex please!
Maybe your love life doesn't exactly look like it did in your early twenties at the moment. And maybe you have a long-term partner at your side. Just more sex wouldn't be so wrong? Well, you have everything you need. Take advantage of the situation. Talk to your partner. What does he think of the idea? Surely he won't be averse to it. If something always comes up or work gets on your nerves again, that's no excuse for not having sex. Make fixed dates during the week when your partner and you can spend time together undisturbed. By actively creating an opportunity, you will have sex with each other more often again. So go on, it's worth it!
2. more variety in your love life
The first point is closely linked to the second. How did it come about that you haven't had as much sex recently? Perhaps one-sidedness was a reason for this? Sex is particularly good when it is surprising and unpredictable . If you always have to endure the same procedures over and over again, then boredom slowly but surely sets in over time. That's why the motto this year is to introduce a little more variety into your sex life. As this sounds quite abstract and therefore rather difficult to implement, I recommend formulating goals as concretely as possible. Something like this: "I want to have sex at place X this year". Or: "I want to try out an anal toy and a vibrator during sex." The list goes on and on. Make your own personal list and put it into practice in 2018.
3. turn fantasy into reality!
Most of us have secret sexual fantasies. It's completely normal. Many of us also turn them into reality. Others, on the other hand, are very reluctant to do so. Why is that? Perhaps the fantasy deviates slightly from the sexual norm. You could be seen as "weird" by the person you are confiding your secret in and you simply don't talk about your fantasies for fear of being hurt. This is a safe way to avoid getting hurt. But is that the right way? Maybe, but maybe not. At some point, you have to be brave enough to share your most personal fantasies with another person. You should have built up a very trusting relationship with your partner for this. Talk to each other. The sexual satisfaction is worth it.
4 Expand your sex knowledge!
You have definitely already had sexual experiences in your life. Most people prefer sexual practice. It is extremely exciting and thrilling. Nevertheless, theory should not be neglected - and for good reason. Because both areas, theory and practice, are mutually dependent. In plain language, this means that you can have better sex through better sex knowledge. Familiarize yourself with the anatomy of your sex and your partner's sex. Where are the pleasure points located and what is the best way to touch them? These and other questions can be answered very well in theory and then tried out. So read a book about sex or the ORION blog - here you'll find sex knowledge on all kinds of questions relating to sexuality!
ORION Blogger Mark