Questions about questions
I have a lot of questions. Is this only the case for a certain target group? Does sex happen very rarely? Is there simply a lack of spontaneity during sex? Last but not least - is sex simply boring if it only happens according to a certain schedule?
Appointment sex - something out of the ordinary
If you make a note of your dates, you'll turn them into something extraordinary! To describe it better:
1) What is planned for longer can be made more explicit and elaborate by making arrangements.
2) If both partners are excited about it, the pleasure is all the greater when the time finally comes.
So you could say that sex doesn't get boring. On the contrary, it becomes something special when both partners think about it all day, look forward to it and are excited about it.
If you don't change anything, it's your own fault!
I have a lot of friends who work late into the evening and then just don't feel like jumping into bed with their boyfriend or girlfriend. You can understand that! But I'd say it's even damaging to relationships. Think about it - no intimacy in bed, loss of libido, sex withdrawal. That kind of thing really eats away at a relationship. So if you don't want to be in a relationship with little fun for two, you need to come up with something.
Sex on a schedule - don't let the relationship down!
There's nothing wrong with planning sex. On the contrary, it's actually very important for some people! Don't let your relationship down. No prejudice about "sex on a schedule". If anything, passion is destroyed when there is no sex at all - or only rarely. You just need to plan it properly and convince your partner with a nice conversation. Just mark a day in your calendar for sex as a trial, it's bound to be exciting! ;)