Sex after 40: 3 things women really want

As a young woman, you might have the hotter sex - no wonder, after all, you're testing yourself with everything new. But women over 40 have better sex because they simply know what they really want!

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"The way I like it!" Sex after 40 - women know what they want!

There are things that are definitely worth getting older for: Sex! As a young woman, you gain experience on the way to climax, but are often still insecure yourself. The necessary self-confidence is often not yet there, and many women (still) struggle with their bodies. With a little more maturity, the tide turns and you experience the most beautiful secondary matter in the world in a completely different way - deeper, more intimate. When it comes to sex after 40, the focus is much more on your own satisfaction because women now know more about what they want and what they don't want.

Sex after 40: 3 things women really want

1. change of position: self-determined sex

Whereas in the past, women often let themselves drift and be surprised by one sex position or another, when it comes to sex after 40, women know exactly how they come best and demand it. They tell or show their partner what gets them going - shyness is a thing of the past.

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2. sex after 40: women love themselves much more

A flab here, a cellulite dimple there - so what? That's why no woman turns off the lights! It bothers you much less if your sex partner touches places that might not be ideal in a perfect world. If he doesn't like it, he can leave.

3. women over 40 want to be surprised in style

Whether it's a tingling foreplay, a fancy dinner beforehand or some role play: women love it when their sex partners think about their love life together. A compulsory number according to plan? Please don't!