Sex fantasies are as individual as they are stimulating

The most erogenous zone for women is the brain and tickets for erotic head cinema can be found everywhere: in tingling novels, romantic films, on the Internet, but also on the scaffolding around the corner where sweaty men flex their muscles in summer.

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Sex fantasies don't necessarily have to remain pure fantasy...

Of course, much more is possible in fantasy than in reality - every thought, no matter how depraved, can be spun into a sensual sex fantasy and secret desires that may not be suitable for everyday life can be lived out uninhibitedly in a woman's head. In this way, solo games become even hotter and even couple sex can gain momentum through dirty fantasies - even if not all ideas are turned into reality and some thoughts remain just a sensual daydream. This is often precisely the appeal of the erotic fantasy world - anything is possible and dreams have no consequences.

But which naughty fantasies do women actually prefer to indulge in? What do they think about during masturbation or perhaps even during sex with their partner to intensify the tingling sensation?

We've put together a few of the most popular sex fantasies - from tender to violent.

The classic - men in uniform

It's not just since the Richard Gere infamy movie "An Officer and a Gentleman" that women have been going weak at the knees when they see men in uniform - whether they're police officers, soldiers or pilots. But why is that? Perhaps because uniforms symbolize power, assertiveness and, of course, pure masculinity. In the female imagination, a man in uniform immediately becomes a conqueror whose orders women have to obey without question. If you then give in, you will be rewarded with pure lust.

The forbidden fruit - your partner's best friend

He is part of your regular circle of friends and you have already spent many hours together - so it can happen that your partner's best friend plays an erotic role in your fantasies and you imagine what it would be like if your buddy not only helped with the barbecue, but also lent an erotic hand. The idea is particularly tempting because the allure of the forbidden resonates and you keep this fantasy a dirty little secret.

One, two, three - the threesome

For many women, one man at their side is more than enough in reality. But in the fantasy world, there may well be two leading men. When the role of the prince charming is doubled, women can also enjoy twice as much. Hot lips, demanding hands and of course the rest - everything is available in duplicate. And the most important thing about this fantasy: the woman is the center of male attention.

Bittersweet - soft SM

It doesn't always have to be Shades of Grey, but many women find the idea of being completely at the mercy of a man quite appealing. You don't have to be spanked with a spatula for this. A blindfold, a silk scarf and a feather are often enough to make you feel like you're doing something terribly naughty - together with the erotic movie in your head, in which things can get a little harder, S&M fantasies fuel your lust.

Apart from explicit sex fantasies, women should also indulge in erotic daydreams much more often and simply let their minds wander in everyday life. You can find potential for sensual short films in your head everywhere - when the crisp trainee bends over the photocopier while the hot colleague gives a boring PowerPoint presentation or at the weekly market at the stall of the pithy apple seller. So get your imagination going and if you're in a sensual mood, your partner will benefit too. Maybe tell each other a few of your most secret fantasies when you get the chance and see what happens ;-)

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