Sex at the push of a button doesn't go down well with women. But who am I telling? Women have to be in the right mood to open up to our sex partners with pleasure. This is usually achieved through foreplay. And in this case, I recommend a tingling e-mail exchange before foreplay to get you in the mood...

Set up a new e-mail account with a nickname that HE will immediately associate with you. If you start sending your loved one an e-mail every Monday, by Friday there will be exactly five e-mails that he, and not least you, will find more than stimulating. The anticipation grows.

In order to really maintain this erotic tension, you should tell him in the first email that the content of the emails will not be discussed. That he is allowed to reply. But only with a word of approval or pleasure - anticipation.

On day 1, day 2 and so on, you will write him what you want from him on day 6: A bath together, an intimate shave, having him close to you as a voyeur, tying him up or whatever you have in mind for him! No matter what you decide, keep your loved one in the loop day after day. The mystery and anticipation will make him more "jittery" by the hour.

And when the day of "sex" finally arrives, there will be no stopping you - if you have been able to resist the pent-up erotic temptation for so long.

Of course, the man can also initiate this electronic foreplay. Or woman for woman or several people together ... It's entirely up to you who you want to focus your sexual anticipation on - just do it.

ORION blogger Siria