It is well known that there is magic in every beginning. This is especially true for the beginning of a new relationship. But we dream of more: a love that outlasts everything, survives everyday worries and lasts forever. And they do exist, the couples for whom it seems so easy to stay in love. Because they know: In a partnership, you have the chance to strengthen your love day by day and live even more intimately together. The most important thing in a happy relationship is to always make an effort for each other.

1 Having and maintaining trust

We have to get involved with our partner and rely on them. Otherwise the foundations of our relationship will crumble. Conversely, it is important to actively do everything we can to ensure that the other person can trust us. This is the only way we can build our future.

2 Always include your partner

We show true love and a deep bond when we include our partner in everything. This doesn't mean only going out together as a couple. It means not excluding them from certain aspects of our lives. Enjoying time together, laughing, crying and comforting together.

3 Pursuing the same goal together

In a happy relationship, partners work together, not against each other. They constantly set themselves new goals, which they can only achieve if they work on them together. Their view of the future is always positive, which in turn motivates them to make new efforts. True to the motto: no matter what challenges await us, together we can do it.

4 Appreciate each other honestly

No matter how familiar we are with our partner and how long we have known each other: We are and remain independent beings with a need for recognition and appreciation for our actions. Mutual praise, encouragement and support is an expression of true interest in our partner and strengthens every relationship. So let's say it more often: well done!

5 Enjoy more closeness and intimacy

Have you cuddled today? Even before people could talk to each other, they were touching and cuddling. Physical closeness calms, creates a bond and euphorizes - from tender hand-holding to wild sex. We therefore find partnerships with physical passion much more satisfying than those without.

6 Talk to each other openly

Sometimes silence is wonderfully comfortable - but in relationships, talking is golden. It is therefore important that we always talk about what we want and what bothers us. This is often neglected in everyday monotony. Until a small concern becomes a big problem. Don't be shy: in love, you can let yourself go and ask your partner for help. Because if not him, then who?

7 Let loose and have fun

Unfortunately, our everyday routine often prevents us from enjoying love to the full. That's when little "let's have a laugh" moments are so important. What a gift to be able to joke around uninhibitedly with our partner and strengthen the relationship with jokes.

8 Be and stay attentive

Loving partners support each other and don't take this help for granted. They treat each other lovingly, are aware of each other's needs and respond to them. They are caring and attentive. And: They thank their partner for gestures and kindnesses. With a smile.

9 Look for and see the beauty

What do you particularly like about your partner? What qualities made you fall in love with them? Keep reminding yourself of this and notice the good things about him or her in everyday life. Be happy about it. Also ask yourself what crises you have already overcome together. Isn't it great to have such an ally?

10 Come to terms with yourself

If we can't accept ourselves and find ourselves attractive, our partner has no chance of really getting through to us. If he builds up our self-confidence, that's great. But really accepting ourselves is our own task - and important for a happy relationship. Because if we love ourselves and nurture our interests, that automatically makes us desirable.

11 Going back to the beginning

No, there is no status quo, neither in life nor in love. Everything flows, everything changes. And that's a good thing. Because it allows us to recapture the magic of the beginning by embarking on new experiences. True love demands risk, but rewards commitment. Here come the butterflies ...