The A-spot - another milestone on the path to pleasure

So, today it's all about the A-spot. Never heard of it? We're going to change that now. To give you a rough idea, the A-spot is on the list of female pleasure. Men don't stand a chance because, as we all know, they don't have a vagina. And this is exactly where this unknown and extremely mysterious spot is located, which we're going to talk about today.

Haben Sie Ihren A-Punkt schon gefunden?© iStock
The A-spot - phenomenon or pleasure-enhancing hotspot?

Nevertheless, it is also worthwhile for every man to continue reading at this point. Perhaps you have direct access to a vagina indirectly through your partner. If you shine here with your knowledge and possibly your skills, this will certainly earn you a lot of points. The genuine interest in and concern for the female anatomy alone moves us women to tears. However, I have to say that this spot is even more reluctant than the already stubborn G-spot.

Where is the A-spot? Cheers to the male explorer

In order to get a name, this spot first had to be discovered. And who had the pleasure? Oh what a wonder, as in the case of the G-spot, once again a man. I find it amazing that men have to point out our good fortune first. But maybe that's also because too many women have inhibitions about their own sex and don't like to go on a journey of discovery themselves. The Malaysian gynaecologist Chua Chee Ann allegedly stumbled across an unusual phenomenon by chance during an examination in 2003: touching a certain spot on the front vaginal wall between the G-spot and the cervix can cause multiple orgasms.After this ground-breaking discovery, the good man seems to have tested other women. Seriously, if my gynecologist caused me to have multiple orgasms, I would be somewhat irritated. But well, it's just speculation as to how the doctor carried out his tests.

But where exactly is this particular point? The A-spot is located deep inside the vagina, behind the G-spot and just before the cervix. While you can explore other pleasure points with your middle finger, it is difficult with the A-spot because it is simply too deep in the vagina. To stimulate this erogenous zone, sex positions in which the man penetrates deeply with his penis are suitable. Of course, this also works with a toy. Let yourself go and let him do it - pleasurable doctor games are fun at any age!

Reach the peak of A-spot pleasure

It is said that stimulating this exact spot also increases lubrication, i.e. the moistening of the vagina. I can't say whether this is really the case. This has not yet been scientifically proven. I rather suspect that a more intensive preoccupation with the already very sensitive vaginal interior leads to more arousal and therefore more moisture. This falls under the heading of foreplay and can only be conducive to intense lovemaking. So thumbs up. However, if it is suggested to stimulate this point with deep thrusts in the missionary position, you shouldn't have too high expectations. After all, this is precisely the position in which women find it difficult to reach orgasm. That's why we suggest sex positions with which your partner is guaranteed to reach their A-spot for an aha experience:

The Rock 'n' Roller or the Viennese Oyster

This sex position has it all - she lies on her back and pulls her legs back in the direction of her head. He kneels in front of her and spreads her legs slightly apart, positioning his head between them and penetrating her deeply. The Viennese oyster is also excellent for deep orgasm: the Viennese oyster is a variation of the missionary position: she crosses her legs behind his neck. With his entire weight resting on her, he can penetrate her deeply.

The doggy style or doggie position

This position is very suitable because it is very intense. In doggy style, the woman is on all fours and is penetrated from behind. It is particularly pleasurable and stimulating for both of them if the woman bends far down.

Riding position

She sits on him and can take his penis completely inside her. By moving up and down, she can determine how deep he penetrates her. The reverse riding position is also a good way to stimulate the exciting Ahhhh point.

I really like how an interview on the website yoni-massage.info describes the pleasure women feel at their A-spot during a yoni massage . This is a special form of tantra massage that also involves the intimate area. This special approach to the female sex and, above all, the fact that the women can concentrate fully on themselves during the massage, makes intense sensations possible. According to yoni masseuse Inari H. Hanel, women talk about the bright light they suddenly see. "And they dive away ... completely into their own depths.Theyhave visions and see meaningful images, often associated with almost religious ideas." She herself has had similar experiences. But even those who don't reach this level of spirituality will enjoy the yoni massage!

The journey is the destination

I'll tell you one thing: if I really want to become famous one day, I'll discover a spot like this. And then I'll market it. Sexologists are already arguing about the existence of the G-spot. So how is that supposed to be the case here? Ultimately, our vagina is criss-crossed by a network of nerves that are sensitive in different places. Every woman feels a touch differently, also depending on the degree of arousal. And please don't forget: It is almost impossible to stimulate just this area deep inside the vagina. How is that supposed to work? You have to get there somehow. And along the way, the particularly sensitive vaginal entrance and the extensions of the clitoris inside the vagina are also stimulated. The journey is the destination. Therefore, the journey of discovery can never do any harm. It is only unfortunate if you put yourself under pressure to succeed.

Anja Drews - qualified sex educator for ORION