What is behind the term breastgasm?
Women have an orgasm when their partner stimulates their breasts. This is possible for some women because the same signals are sent to the brain during lovemaking with the sensitive nipples as during vaginal or clitoral touch. They release the messenger substance oxytocin, which causes orgasm.
Is there a position with an orgasm guarantee?
No, unfortunately not. However, studies show that women come most often in the riding position - simply because the woman has complete control when she is sitting on top and can move in the way that is best for her. Incidentally, circular movements are more effective than simply moving up and down. Intensive kissing and manual stimulation of the clitoris during intercourse also increase a woman's chances of orgasm.
Which foods help to increase pleasure?
Yes, there are indeed foods that increase pleasure. Good news for all those who like it spicy: chili increases blood flow to the sexual organs, literally making you hot. Espresso helps to pump blood and can therefore prolong pleasure. Oysters have a very stimulating effect: they contain a lot of zinc, an important nutrient for the production of the sex hormone testosterone.
Which sex toy is particularly worthwhile for women?
New on the market and celebrated by many women with terms such as "addictive potential" is the "Womanizer Pro" (Orion) lay-on vibrator. Its plus: it not only vibrates, but also gently sucks on the clitoris.
Tongue play, oral sex: how long should it last?
The rule here is: don't let him stress you out. If he wants to pleasure you but you don't come straight away, just enjoy the process. Your partner will let you know when he's no longer in the mood. The same applies vice versa, of course. Find out more about hot love play with the tongue here.
What to do (and what not to do) in the event of embarrassing sex mishaps?
Stay calm! The fact is that our body, which gives us wonderful feelings of pleasure during sex, occasionally emits strange noises, fluids or smells. Don't make any comments then, just get on with it. Almost any embarrassment can be quickly erased from your memory with a passionate kiss.
How fast do we come on average?
The discovery of slowness: while men only need an average of two minutes to orgasm during sex, women often need around 10-20 minutes. Enjoy! Or show him specifically how you can do it faster.
5 things...
... that men should understand to make us really happy in bed:
1 We're not made of sugar and don't want to be wrapped in absorbent cotton. We love passion and intensity.
2 "Foreplay" is a stupid expression It comes from a time when sex was equated with simply getting in and out. Everything belongs together and develops smoothly, without stress.
3 Don't put us under pressure If we don't feel like having sex with you, it doesn't mean we don't love you.
4 Pay attention to our signals We don't always dare to say out loud when we're hot for you. But we do give off signals.
5 No moreacrobatics The bed is not a sports field.