Preparation counts
Preparation is the be-all and end-all. You certainly want to give your loved one some spontaneous pleasure. Sex on a schedule is more of an erotic killer, but a few simple precautions before oral lovemaking are still useful. First of all, you should ask yourself how the lovemaking should ideally end. Having a towel or at least a handkerchief to hand is extremely useful - if you don't want anything to go wrong. Nothing spoils the mood more than a woman suddenly running around the apartment in a panic just before the (successful) end, frantically searching for tissues or something similar.
Also make yourself comfortable. Men are often interested in prolonging the excitement of lovemaking for as long as possible. It is therefore important to adopt a comfortable position for the blowjob so that the neck does not become stiff or, in the worst case, a cramp sets in. Use pillows and blankets to help and adopt a position that won't be punished with contortions and pain in the neck area. This way, the lovemaking can begin for your loved one.
The followingalso applies: Safety first! If you have just met someone new, a condom is also mandatory for a blowjob!
Whatever is fun is allowed
There are countless tips on how to give a proper blowjob. However, you should be aware that your partner is happy that YOU are giving them this great experience. Maintaining eye contact and seducing your partner with deep looks will probably turn them on. However, a blowjob can only work if both partners really want it. After all, oral sex should be fun for both of you. So turn your head off and enjoy this intimate moment together.
If you don't feel like it, it's better to leave it alone. Otherwise it will end in disappointment for both partners. Also take your time. A quickie every now and then is certainly nice. However, a blowjob under time pressure or with a constant glance at the clock is less erotic. Calm transitions and no hectic back and forth give your partner time to enjoy the touch and put them in the right mood. The rule here is: there is strength in calm.
Don't be afraid to ask your partner what they enjoy. Just because you've read something doesn't mean that your man will go for it. And if a technique doesn't work, that's not a problem either. Talk about it and try something different next time.
The blowjob: avoid injuries
The basic rule par excellence for giving a proper blowjob is: teeth are taboo! A man's best part is very sensitive and there are many nerve endings here that sweeten the lovemaking, but can also make it very painful. So when giving a blowjob, avoid any factors that could end in pain for your partner.
In addition, oral sex should not be too dry. Otherwise it will only cause pain. The rule here really is: more is more. You can certainly imagine how uncomfortable pressure and friction are without an appropriate, lubricating substance on the penis. Alternatively, it is also possible to use lubricants specially made for this purpose. To make the adventure even more tingling, there are also gels that have a stimulating effect or are flavored.
The right blow job: a combination of many factors
Variety is definitely the fun part of giving a blowjob! Sucking for a while can be very arousing, but it's the variety that counts. Licking and the use of hands make a big difference. Men want lovemaking that they wouldn't experience on their own. They also want to be able to simply let go of their lust. For you, this means that you can take full control. It's all in the mix. The testicles also play a role. Stroking the testicles is part of a good blowjob. You are also welcome to switch to a handjob. Tongue and hands should always be a team for a good blowjob. Finally, varying the pressure and speed also makes oral sex more exciting and will give him an unforgettable blowjob.