As quickly as you can get in the mood, it can also disappear again. There are also certain rules of etiquette during sex if you both want to have fun. You should therefore avoid these sex mistakes at all costs.
Be careful during oral sex - THESE things he should avoid when licking us>>
1. you speak in toddler language
"You, Putzibärli, doesn't little Piephahn want to come and visit dear Mumu?" Uh, so if your sex partner doesn't immediately pull up their pants and run away, then we don't know either. Toddler or baby talk is an absolute turn-off. We say: Please never use it!
2 He's just doing his thing
Being a bit submissive in bed can be really exciting. But if he confuses the dominant role with selfishness and only thinks about himself and his satisfaction, then the game is over. We say: A serious word, otherwise never again!
3. sex without contraception
"I can only do without!" Unfortunately, there are still men who totally reject contraceptives. Dear ladies: No matter how great the desire - sex without condoms is an absolute no-go, because it's not just about contraception, it's about avoiding sexually transmitted diseases and AIDS. We say: throw it to the wind immediately!
4. he doesn't know your name
"Oh Susi, you're so good!" Yes thanks, but who is Susi? If your sex partner calls you the wrong name when you're hot, it's more than embarrassing. If it's a one-night stand, you might be able to forgive it. If you often meet up for a fling, then you're probably not the only one. We say: No name, no fun!
5. making a break for it
Ah yes, it's probably not going to happen with a coffee together afterwards, because while you were making it, he's already snuck out the door. That's really not on! After all, a coffee is not an obligation to get married, it's just a way of ending your time together nicely. That should be enough. We say: If you leave like this, you don't need to come back!
6 He talks and talks and talks
Some people are totally into it, others are turned off by it. Dirty talk! But no matter how you feel: If someone keeps talking during sex, you can really lose interest. Either end the disaster or put on your headphones and listen to a radio play on the side. We say: Only girlfriends are there to chat!
7. cell phone & co. during sex
A super no-go - don't use your cell phone or laptop during sex, because your undivided attention belongs to you. Anyone who plays online games on the side or even films without your consent has no business in bed. We say: Never come back!
Date: 08.10.2020
Author: Tanja Seiffert