
"Getting married again was no longer an issue for me after my divorce 10 years ago. I had already had a bad marriage, so I could do without a repeat.
A tough battle to achieve financial independence
My ex left me and our two children in the lurch. Viktor and Marie were just five and seven years old. I had to fight hard to even put enough food on the table for us, but I managed it. And I swore to myself back then that I would never be financially dependent on a man again.
The unexpected often happens
My children are now almost grown up and I have built a fulfilling life for myself. I no longer hoped for love, and I didn't want 'just anyone' anymore. Then I met Gerd while hiking. Polite, charming, humorous, clever - I liked him immediately. At 47, I had butterflies in my stomach. I didn't trust my feelings, I was afraid of being hurt again. But then I listened to my heart and got involved with him. To this day, I haven't regretted it for a second, because that's how I found happiness."
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