Prostate massage: how to drive your partner crazyExperience an orgasm without touching the penis? It is possible, at least according to men who have already experienced one. Unfortunately, we women can't experience this ourselves. That's because the...
Clitoral orgasm or vaginal orgasm? What the expert saysThe vaginal orgasm is still a mystery. Only around a third of women climax through vaginal stimulation. But is it really so desirable? And above all, why is it considered more desirable than the clito...
Female ejaculation: What happens when women ejaculate?There is a rumor going around. This rumor is worrying. And it also confuses me. Because it says that when women squirt, i.e. when they are very aroused, it is not just any liquid that comes out of the...
The A-spot - another milestone on the path to pleasureSo, today it's all about the A-spot. Never heard of it? We're going to change that now. To give you a rough idea, the A-spot is on the list of female pleasure. Men don't stand a chance because, as we ...
Labia, labia veneris and love lipsDear readers, dear readers or simply dear readers? Which form of address is politically correct and are there really erotic names for our genitals or should we stick to the scientific ones? Sex educat...
What men really like in bedThere are such great guides where we can read about what men want sexually. All men? Or just some? I always vehemently oppose generalizations. Seven billion people on earth, almost half of whom are ma...
What was it like back then: sex like in the Stone Age?The other day, early in the morning, reading an article on Deutschlandradio Kultur was like a bolt of lightning and I immediately swung my legs out of bed. Yes, I admit that I usually start the day wi...
Which couple toy for which position - or which position for which couple toy?What happens when couple toys are simply not feasible in the real world of beds? You fumble around with newly acquired pleasure enhancers and don't know how to use the "third man". Somehow the lust tu...
Lull in bed: listlessness has many causesLust comes. Lust leaves. In this interplay, we often feel at the mercy of our body. As if we had nothing to do with it. That would be nice and easy. Because if it really had nothing to do with us and ...
No desire for sex: excess makes you listlessIt's so typical: we always want what we don't get. And we don't want what is available to us in abundance. Who hasn't experienced this...
Not in the mood with period pains?Sex is great. It's relaxing, brings us closer or is just plain awesome. But some days of the month it's just no fun.
Why do touches often feel so different?"When my ex-husband, who was the love of my life, touched my nipples, I literally freaked out. It was such an intense feeling that I almost went insane. When my current partner touches my nipples, how...
Interpersonal sauna etiquetteA sauna is something wonderful: a place of peace, relaxation and well-being. Sweating naked and wrapped up in a fluffy bathrobe in the relaxation room is a great way to pass the time in the large saun...
When men have pain during sexPain during sex? This really isn't just a women's issue. Men are also affected. Back or knee pain, for example. You have to think about positions that are easy on the joints. Or sore muscles afterward...
Together for life? In love for life? Is that possible?Is there a recipe for lifelong love? Does it even exist today? We will probably only be able to answer this question when we ourselves are old and possibly still in love. Did lifelong love exist in th...
How much sex is normal?"How much sex is normal in a relationship?" That's a question I'm often asked. "Five times," I say. "What exactly do you mean, five times a day, a week, a month or a year?" I usually get back impatien...
Penis pumps - with negative pressure for a firm erectionIf things aren't going so well in bed, men should get creative, because who wants to miss out on an active love life? However, erectile dysfunction does not necessarily have to be treated with medicat...
When a man doesn't want toThat can't be right, she thinks to herself. What's wrong with him? They had sex when they first met. And what sex! But now, just a few months later, nothing is happening. Niente. Dead pants.
What's the truth? Does sex make you healthy?This is another one of those wonderful headlines that make me smile. Sex makes you healthy! Oh how nice! Then let's do it! Here and now, right now! Because I realize that a cold is coming on....
Flirt factor dog: What's the truth?When I came across the dog almost thirteen years ago after a long relationship, I received incredulous looks. "You with a dog? That can only go wrong!" Yes, thank you, very encouraging. But well, up u...
