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Sex

How to revitalize your relationship

Tipps und Tricks für ein erfülltes Liebesleben

The topic of sex is omnipresent. We don't even have to visit the relevant websites, we are constantly confronted with it in everyday life: in advertising, on magazine covers, even in the supermarket, the design of some product packaging is suspiciously reminiscent of primary sexual organs. Isn't that enough sex? We at idee für mich think so: No. On the one hand, because many articles - whether in magazines or on the Internet - are written by men for men. Where is the female eroticism? On the other hand, we believe that we can offer you something that others don't, even with the abundance of sex guides: a sharpened view of the needs of women over 40 - needs that are quite different from those of younger women.

Sex is love and joie de vivre

The realization that lovemaking is not just about procreation has thankfully got around by now. Sex is fun, period! And it's just as important for women as it is for men! Sex gives us moments of happiness, intimacy and togetherness. It is an expression of love, optimism and joie de vivre. It creates tension and relaxation and makes us feel good in our own bodies. And sex is healthy: studies have shown that an orgasm strengthens the immune system, increases fat burning and improves blood circulation in the blood vessels. Incidentally, it doesn't matter whether you climax as a couple or alone, or how old you are.

A different kind of sex guide

It is more or less logical that the desires of those who are 40 or older are quickly lost in the youth craze of our society. But that's what we at idee für mich are here for: in our sex guides, we cover topics that are neglected elsewhere. For example, why pelvic floor training can help to achieve a more intense orgasm. Or how fulfilling sex is possible after a prostatectomy. Of course, we also provide suggestions on how you can revitalize your love life: With fantasies that will get your head spinning and ideas that will take your foreplay to unimagined heights. So: Let's talk about sex, baby!

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