5 simple tips: Learn to listen

Listening is essential for human interaction. Always responding attentively to the other person's words demonstrates interest and compassion. However, not everyone succeeds. We are often distracted and not fully present. But for all those who have a problem with this themselves or live with someone who finds it difficult, here's a tip: learning to listen is possible! How do you do it? All you need are these five simple tips.

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via Anna-Lisa
05/26/2017, 11:57
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Listening to the other person is essential for human interaction

1 Ready to listen: switch to receive

Listening assumes that you really want to hear something from the person you are talking to. If your thoughts are far away, it is only fair to postpone the conversation. Turn your attention to the other person and don't let yourself be distracted - not even by your cell phone.

2 Respect: engage with the other person

You can show particular interest in the other person if you remain attentive the whole time, maintain eye contact and ask questions from time to time. Even small gestures such as nodding your head signal that you are listening.

3 Restraint: Don't push yourself to the fore

Always let the other person finish speaking: Those who take a reserved approach to conversations come across as more intelligent and much more likeable to others than "pushers".

4 Acknowledgement: Show understanding for what is being said

You can prove that you are actively listening by summarizing what you have heard in a concise and non-judgmental way - and by putting yourself in the position of the speaker.

5 Structure: Steer the conversation if necessary

Is the other person unsure and getting bogged down? By expanding on an aspect or introducing new topics, you can get the conversation back on track.