Chronic diseases include diabetes, multiple sclerosis (MS), rheumatic diseases or chronic inflammatory bowel diseases such as Crohn's disease. They can all affect fertility and the course of pregnancy.
Effects of chronic diseases on the desire to have children
Chronic illnesses can affect the desire to have children in many different ways. People with long-term health conditions such as myasthenia gravis (MG), where muscle weakness occurs in phases, often face particular challenges when deciding to have their own child. It is best to talk to the doctor treating you if you have MG and wish to have children, as the effects of a chronic illness on fertility, possible risks during pregnancy and the ability to cope with everyday life with a child must be carefully weighed up.
A desire to have children with a chronic illness requires an intensive examination of one's own health situation. Those affected should seek advice from specialists in order to be able to assess the individual risks of having children. Depending on the type and severity of the illness, pregnancy can put additional strain on the body and have a negative impact on the course of the illness. Possible effects on the child must also be taken into consideration.
To increase the chances of a successful pregnancy and avoid complications, it is important to optimally control the underlying disease before conception. This often includes adjusting the medication to minimize risks for the unborn child. Close medical care during pregnancy and after the birth is also advisable.
In addition to the physical aspects, psychological and social factors also play an important role. The diagnosis of a chronic illness can be emotionally stressful and cause anxiety. Psychological support can help with the desire to have children in order to address worries and doubts and develop coping strategies. Sharing experiences with other affected people, for example in self-help groups, can also have a relieving effect.
The challenges of starting a family
Starting a family is a major challenge for many couples with chronic illnesses. In addition to health concerns, there are also emotional, financial and organizational hurdles to overcome. Those affected often feel insecure and overwhelmed when it comes to realizing their desire to have children despite their illness.
One of the biggest challenges when starting a family is the fear of possible complications during pregnancy and childbirth. Many women with chronic illnesses fear that their health could deteriorate or that the child could also be affected by the illness.
Another aspect that can make starting a family more difficult is the financial burden. Chronic illnesses are often accompanied by high treatment costs, which can place a heavy burden on the family budget. In addition, many of those affected are only able to work to a limited extent due to their illness, which can lead to a loss of income. It is important to look for support options and state aid at an early stage in order to ease the financial situation.
Last but not least, starting a family with a chronic illness also requires a high degree of organization and flexibility. Childcare must be coordinated with treatment appointments and possible episodes of illness. Good planning and a stable support network of family and friends are essential here.
Conclusion
Open communication within the partnership and with the treating medical team is of central importance in order to find individual solutions and ensure the best possible care. In addition, psychological counseling, communication with other people affected and support from family and friends can help to cope with the emotional stress and look positively to the future.
Ultimately, it is important that couples with chronic illnesses are encouraged not to give up on their desire to have children. With the right support and a strong will, they can take their chances of starting a family and experience the joys of parenthood.