Good in bed: Decipher what he really likes

When everyday life settles into a relationship after the initial infatuation, a certain routine can sometimes creep in during sex. That's not a bad thing, because familiarity is good - it just shouldn't get boring. And because we women are women, we do think about whether he still likes the lovemaking. He betrays himself with these behaviors.

He's always trying out new things

Don't worry, this doesn't mean that he's bored in bed with you - on the contrary. On the contrary, it indicates that he trusts you so much and knows you so well that he is not afraid to embark on adventures and discover new (sexual) worlds with you. You give him the feeling that he doesn't have to be ashamed of his unusual desires and fantasies. What a beautiful proof of love. Be just as bold and introduce new ideas. Your partner will appreciate it and you will have even more fun.

He can't get enough

After the first round of sex, he doesn't want to let you out of bed? Does he caress and kiss you, arousing you all over again? What better sign could there be that you've been "good"? You're obviously living out your pleasure in a relaxed way and giving yourself completely to the moment. This is an important sign of trust for him.

He talks to you openly about sex

I hear there are still men who are mainly interested in one question afterwards: "So, how was I?" All the better if your partner is not interested in just producing himself. He has understood that it's about the interaction between the two of you and that you play a big part in ensuring that you both have a fulfilling sex life. If he also praises you directly for the beautiful feelings you give him, you can be sure you're doing everything right.

He recognizes what you both want

Sometimes it doesn't take many words, on the contrary: sometimes it just fits. If he automatically finds the right mix, senses when he should take it easier or try out harder variations again, that speaks of a deep connection. If you are such a well-rehearsed team, forget all doubts: you really are made for each other in love.

He acts and doesn't question you

He doesn't hesitate, likes to get stuck in, takes the initiative: you may think that this is selfishness. But it usually just means that your partner feels comfortable with you. He knows that he doesn't have to argue with you for long and is grateful for the self-confidence you give him. Ultimately, he just wants to make you happy and not always question everything. If he is allowed to do this, you will make him just as happy in return.

He keeps flirting with you afterwards

Have you ever noticed that he continues to make eye contact, send hot text messages or flirt with you for a long time after sex? Then the next "good bed story" is surely already on the horizon ...